Sex: The Spirituality behind such a profound connection.

Sex: A Profound Connection

Hello! Thank you for these packages’ great reception, more than I imagined! And as always, it is a pleasure to help and bring Light to this planet. Today I want to discuss a topic several people have already asked me. We are going to talk about the spirituality behind sex. We’ve talked about many things already, and lately, we’ve been discussing new topics; today, we will discuss sex.

As always with all the Meditate with Fernando’s Blog, this entry is born because of the spiritual observations I have made over the years and working with hundreds of people. As we learn more about energies, we realize there is much more to all things than we perceive, and sex is no less. This topic is often uncomfortable, even between a couple who love each other for many reasons.

Therefore, I invite you to keep an open mind, as always, and find your spiritual connection in your intimate life. In this way, your sex life and relationships will have a much more solid foundation, with much more positivity, where difficulties lead to the development and new experiences.

Is sex only a mundane act?

One of the significant problems between humanity and sex is that it has become taboo over thousands of years. And although today, the collective consciousness is much more open to sex, there are still many taboos on the matter. For example, a person would openly say he cycles or meditates. However, if there is a person who says, “I have a lot of sex,” the matter changes. Indeed, having read that, I am sure it has amused you, and you have smiled at the ironic situation. A person would say that they give their partner a lot of love and support, but they will not mention sex. It is not easy to tell and will make most receivers uncomfortable.

You can say that you do a lot of cycling, but not that you have a lot of sex.

This is because until very recently, and still on some level, sex was highly taboo, something to blush about or even feel ashamed of. Even when everything is in order and smooth in this department (another tricky issue in many cases.) I won’t point the finger at anyone; we all know why sex has always been such a big taboo. It is worth noting that the relationship between humanity and intimacy has never been good, and for now, it still isn’t.

An orgasm is a potent tool. Perhaps, what I will comment on will make you laugh, but orgasms help manifest with great power. The reason is that you send a compelling energy injection to the Universe. Although challenging, if you can project a desire right now, you can manifest it on many levels. If you want to try to visualize something when you have an orgasm, you will witness its materialization powers.

Huge energy potential.

And it’s not only suitable for projecting or having a powerful experience (orgasm), which perhaps, on a universal level, it’s exotic energy (although ordinary here.) It is because of the amount of energy that we project at that moment. Like traumas, good experiences can leave marks throughout your different lives. An intimate, authentic, beautiful connection where both parties are happy will leave an impact on your Akashic Records. You could remember something in future lives, just as now you may remember some experience from the past or feel a more transcendental connection with a specific person.

Today, partly with the development of electronics, the sex door is wide open. However, not as many people as you imagine cross it, and many people who travel it do so with great fear, discomfort, and uncertainty. This had been a significant blockage for thousands of years, and right now, this blockage is healing. And when there is healing, it always hurts a little.

With electronics, we have more access to casual sex.

This has taken millions of people to the other extreme, giving zero value to the energetic and emotional aspects of sex. There is a specific polarity here where for some people, sex is just “hot,” and for others, even if they want it just to be that way, they create an emotional bond, and afterward, there can be a lot of pain. To get to the point, just as a sexual link is perhaps one of the ways to connect more with another person on the physical plane, this connection is much stronger on the astral plane, and you can create solid and energetic bonds. Primarily if they already exist from past lives.

However, we will not get into this matter since; for this article, I want to focus on the intimacy of a stable couple.

The great Polarity of personal needs.

With a certain irony but with great certainty, I want to tell you that the Principle of Polarity is evident in sex. It is common knowledge that, as a rule, if sex works well for a couple, everything is excellent. Sex becomes something minor, like a point of support for the overall foundation of the couple, a simple 5%. However, when there is a problem, it becomes the most important thing, and 95% of that seems that the couple will break into pieces, leading to potentially serious issues. And this is very real for everyone, with more or less intensity, but to a certain degree. And this is unavoidable due to the Principle of Mentalism and even Correspondence.

This post aims to reflect on what sex means in your life. You may find aspects in yourself or your partner(s) that do not convince you. Or desires, fantasies, or needs that have not been considered (intentionally or unintentionally). When something goes wrong, it requires attention, and it is in emotional and sexual maturity to learn to deal with these problems instead of burying them in the hope that they will magically disappear one day.

Construction: Represents building based on the sex of the couple.

As with practically everything on the physical plane, you must take action to bring about changes in your sex. Trying to escape these problems is either a lack of affection in the relationship or sexual maturity.

When there are spikes in the path of roses.

Although sex is something natural, like everything, it requires a little learning. If nothing else, there may be wounds in your relationship due to the lack of communication in your intimate life. It does not mean that everything is lost, but it does mean that it is necessary to work on it. Unfortunately, this is easier said than done. However, as with any other challenge in life, you must face it to obtain that desired improvement.

When there is no balance in sex, interest is lost little by little. It depends on the person, they will act in diverse ways inside and outside the relationship, but we will not focus on this. However, many couples enter a zone of turbulent sex, poor sex, or even no sex at all. This can lead to a solid physical disconnection; while the emotional connection can be fine, physical disconnection is a heavy burden as we are physical beings. All this reverberates at a subconscious level, hiding in our shadow side. This also affects the spiritual connection and energy.

Rushing, as always, is not good at all, and in this case, being a two-person issue, it is even more critical that each person has their rhythm. It is important not to come to a complete halt, and if it does come, to talk about it to continue working, albeit little by little, to reach that improvement. Otherwise, this could generate frustration, sadness, and anxiety, and it depends on the situation and the actions taken; we could also talk about the possibility of karma.

Things to keep in mind.

Try to understand any blocks and negativity that you may associate with sex. It is essential to understand and identify the root of the problem. Sex problems are complicated to fix, but like everything, it is fixable. It is imperative to focus on communication. The partner is supposed to be the person you trust the most, with whom you share your intimate life so that you can talk about it. One or both partners may have powerful feelings of guilt about not being able to have a fulfilling sex life. The lack of communication will cause emotional heaviness, and these feelings grow, overwhelming the person and generating anxiety.

If there is no communication about sex in the couple, it could demolish the relationship.

You must be very patient since the discussions can multiply and only continue to open the wound. I have worked with people who have been going around in circles for years, suffering a lot and coming to despair. However, taking one small step after another helps to find healing. A loyal person who does not seek what they are missing from the relationship will suffer greatly. In other situations, there could be affairs outside of the relationship, resulting in more pain at a certain point. A couple with sexual tension due to dissatisfaction will have many more arguments and misunderstandings. For everything to flow well, you must have a balance, always.

A little advice.

You must start with step number one and keep secrets. The partner is supposed to be the one you trust the most; if you cannot talk about sex, you should better focus on other, more severe problems that need more attention. If this is your case, focus on your love and strengthen your communication and relationship. What’s wrong with putting all the cards on the table? You must comment on your wishes, what you like, and what you don’t like… turn everything upside down and reorganize everything to a higher balance.

Finding a problem does not mean not discussing it or simply crossing it off the list. You must understand the problem and the lack of something specific for both people. This lack may be inevitable; however, knowing why it is unavoidable is essential before reaching that conclusion. There is often another problem, a trauma, or something negative that you can perhaps eliminate, bringing progress and better fluidity in sex. The key is to take one step after another, slowly but surely.

And if, for some reason, you are avoiding talking about sex with your partner, you should ask yourself why. But from a humble point of view and without ego. There may be some karmic problem, and when this is the case, a simple talk and starting to act could solve it. And I repeat, this is more difficult than it seems; as I said at the beginning, sex is taboo, even within many couples. However, you must progress, especially if you do not find fullness.

Perhaps sex is no longer “a natural thing” for you; however, with desire and effort, it can be again!

Like everything in life, this also requires effort. Crossing your arms and being in your comfort zone without trying to improve things only brings suffering. And after all this, I remind you that we have the June forecast next week. Let’s see how global energies are! But all this in one week. But all this in one week. I hope you have a wonderful week! I’ll be back next week.

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Love & Light,

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Rev. Fernando Albert