How are you truly feeling in your relationship?

How are you truly feeling in your relationship?

Hello once again! Last week, we looked at a deeper level of how karma works and goes far beyond what we commonly know. This week I want to bring you an opportunity to reflect. But not about karma or how many planes of existence there are. After working with hundreds of couples and learning in my way, I have realized several things. Specific things that are constantly overlooked. Let me ask you a question if you have a partner, how do you feel in your love relationship? The purpose of this post is not to question whether the person next to you is the right one but to question everything you lack in the relationship. And when I say “you,” I mean both parties of the couple.

I already shared a post about couples a while ago, and we have also talked about the importance of communication. I have always talked about the three pillars of love; communication, love, and sex. If one of these pillars fails, the relationship will suffer, and even the relationship could be in danger if these failures are very severe. However, it is essential to understand that everything can be delved deeper. For example, although the law of attraction, we increased our understanding of this mechanic when we discovered the Principles of the Universe.

This entry aims to go beyond these three pillars that both parties of the couple do their part to strengthen and improve the relationship.

A good checkup for your relationship.

We live in a society that demands a lot from us and demands more and more from us. This is something that I have mentioned in other articles, and I have always connected it with the development of spirituality. However, this is true for anything in life, and this week we will focus on your relationship. And I want to focus primarily on stable couples, those who have been living together for years, have been loyal, and have faced many challenges in life.

These couples are, in principle, the most stable and desirable moment in a relationship. A connection can potentially keep this couple together for the rest of their lives. However, this does not mean that you have to sit idly by in the comfort of living together. In fact, during a stable relationship, stability must continue to exist altogether. We already have a good part with the day today and an optimal coexistence, but it is not everything. Although love and affection exist, perhaps there are other aspects in the relationship lost, but for more things besides monotony.

It’s necessary.

You can change many things between you, but you have to communicate and cooperate.

I am not referring to any of the three pillars, but too small things that are perhaps overlooked (even by the personal self) and left withered wishes in the heart and broken desires. The correct way to start bringing those small significant changes to your relationship is for both people to look together for what they need and want to share. So, to begin with, it is essential to know yourself, or at least know what needs you might have. And when there is an understanding of the needs that one has, you have to start working with the couple so that both of you can present your needs.

It is possible that either of you or the both of you may have easy to grant desires that are not happening because of a lack of trust and communication.

Honey, it’s time to search and find what we need.

And perhaps this is the first step to take when you are willing to take your relationship to the next level. It is time to open your heart to your partner entirely and for your partner to open their heart in the same way. A little boy asks Santa Claus for anything without fear or consideration. In principle, the other person in your relationship should be the one you trust the most. Sadly, this is not true in most cases, and this is a necessary thing that the couple should work on. Are you able to explain to your partner everything you would like to have in the relationship? Is your partner capable of explaining to you everything they want and need?

In a relationship, you are supposed to express all your desires safely.

You must reflect on the last two questions because you probably won’t answer yes to both questions. And if you think about it coldly, a couple is supposed to support each other and tell each other everything they need. An article like this does not resolve this complex issue, but you will determine if you start working on it. Your partner may often be unaware of your needs, and I assure you that the same thing happens the other way around. And all this is because there is no clear communication in couples.

Some couples have more taboos than others!

These are never good, especially if they touch on any of the main pillars in a relationship. But as I said at the beginning, other taboos can be different aspects of life, perhaps problems or differences that the couple has. As there are these taboos, there are things that the couple avoids talking about so as not to argue. It’s very typical in a stable couple who love each other and do not want problems. You will generally find the need to repress these desires, as will your partner.

We need to talk about our relationship.

Perhaps reading these words has given you sure chills. Indeed, at some point in your life, you have heard these words, and in another, you have said them. Usually, nothing good follows these words, and among other things (especially in adult and stable couples), these words come when it is too late and could have been avoided. The time for “we need to talk about our relationship” is when everything is going well, or decently well, in the relationship. And this is so because we are different people. It is straightforward to take dozens of things for granted in a connection.

I want to invite you to do something, something difficult but necessary:

You have to meet your partner for a snack/dinner where no one will bother you for a couple or three hours. You have to suggest this to your partner in a joyous moment, where you are relaxed, watching TV, for example. Never recommend this during an argument.

• You have to meet your partner for a snack/dinner where no one will bother you for a couple or three hours. You have to suggest this to your partner in a joyous moment, where you are relaxed, watching TV, for example. Never offer this during an argument.
• It is essential to present to your partner the goal of this date to prepare as well. Share a moment without discomfort to bring your desires for the relationship to the table. What do you most want from the relationship?

It is a moment of love, not discussion, so you can make it an extraordinary moment.

• This date will bring you the opportunity to explain how you feel openly and even to talk about your taboos without any reprisals. This date is like a sanctuary where there is no arguing, pointing, or speaking accusatorily. And perhaps this can be not easy, so it must be corrected immediately if it happens. Make sure this leads to transformation, not frustration.
• Here you can talk about your day-to-day desires if you would like to do, be it day-to-day, bed, or something sporadic. It is essential, to be honest with yourself at all times, and understand that the person who is by your side is the one who will listen and understand you the most. Of course, you must have the same attitude.

Upgrade time.

It is essential to take advantage of these moments to bring everything you need into the relationship. You have to share all your emotional, sexual, or earthly desires. It does not matter, but if you notice that you are missing something in the relationship or its aspects, it is essential to bring it up. There will be some things that may not be possible, but you will find the most optimal way for both of you to be happy. Many others will be since many of these shortcomings come from the inability to talk about it. Or in many cases, unfortunately, leading to further discussion and dislike issues.

Although it shouldn’t be challenging to take this step and complete it successfully, in most cases, it will be, even in the “best pairs.” Some issues are more sensitive than others, but again I repeat, in a relationship, it is vital to have complete trust in the other person when sharing these things. Next week, I will share emotions’ power in our lives. The energy in our Heart Chakra has much more power than you can imagine. But all this in a week! I will tell you next week. I am pretty sure you are going to enjoy the read! Don’t forget March’s Forecast. See you next Wednesday!

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Love & Light,

Lots of blessings and abundance your way! (Home)

Rev. Fernando Albert