The way we communicate something will have a huge impact in the end result of the message.

How to communicate a message to get the best result?

Hey, all! Did you find the topic of how astral projection feels interesting? This week is a bit more “mundane” thing, but I think necessary. And I’ve already talked about these topics in past posts (I recommend this one about communication). This week we are going to talk about how to communicate things. We are not going to touch (or very slightly) the cell phone topic, I have talked a lot about them. We assume that some issues have already been learned; therefore, we are going to go one step further. I’m going to try to share the way of communicating things, because really, and above all, it depends on the person, it can have a lot of impacts when it comes to receiving the message, so it is important how you communicate it.

I mean, I’m not an expert, and like everyone else, I’ve also learned through lessons. However, working with people, seeing more than a generation past, and the learning that I receive as I expand my spiritual development, has helped me to realize things. I have a lot to learn, things that I can’t imagine, for sure, just like everyone else, it is one of the reasons that we are on this dense plane of duality. But I know that, between the experience of my own life, and learning from working with other people, I want to make an entry like this, because I know that you can throw a cable at someone. Also, some of this knowledge is astral lessons, and those if it is okay to share them. As long as it improves our ability o communicate properly.

Pay attention! Right now, you must focus on this article. For your better good!

Did you notice it strange, maybe even aggressive? Not my style when I write, right?

It is better to know how to communicate things, and I am sharing more below if you want to continue reading.

Much better this way, and of course, as a reader, you prefer this approach, right? I can tell you that if you say things abruptly, for example, you can hurt the person. Or for example, if my posts had those titles, maybe you wouldn’t want to read this blog. And well, this is what I’m really going to talk about, it doesn’t have much mystery. I am not going to say that it will be short, because they do not usually, but well, it will be of the short side (in the end, once more, not really!) hehe. It truly matters how you communicate things.

When you have to say something you don’t agree with or don’t like.

Sometimes it is difficult to express your feelings, and depending on your personality, it can be from easy to practically impossible. But it is essential to know that you can give your point of view, without making the other person feel attacked, or questioned. Today, because of the internet, people have become coarser and colder. What was essential a couple of decades ago (hello, please, thank you, bye-bye) is increasingly spoiling. People have gotten used to just sending instant messages, and sometimes they don’t realize that an email, a formal letter, or even a conversation in person is not the same as a text message.

It is essential to know the origin of what you do not like about the person, inspect it to understand it, and make decisions from there. Knowing the person, you will always know how to communicate something gently. When you go to say something you don’t like, you will understand why, and you may even feel that the other person can help you. For example, you wouldn’t say to your best friend, “I’m sick of so many beers every Saturday, this (added swear) sucks You’re also not going to keep drinking beers this way if you’re tired. You can say to him, “And what do you think if, for example, tonight we go to see a movie, so we don’t just go for beers, we’re going to have a beer belly hahaha!”

Get to know the person, but really, not only through messages and emojis.

The above is a great way to tell a friend not to overdo the beers. You can even laugh. But if your friend has had or has a problem of overweight, low self-esteem, etc., you should know so as not to harm this person accidentally. You’ll screw up sometimes, even when you’re trying to do it right, but it’s a process. The important thing is to have the intention of doing it well. Learning how to communicate appropriately is a life-long lesson.

If you know others and listen to them, you can learn a lot. Everyone has their way to communicate things, but also of understanding them. For this reason, there are sometimes so many conflicts, be it family, professional, or even national. But with the people around us, we can avoid many annoyances if we stop a little to listen to them. We also have to listen to what our conscience has to say, and for that, silence is perfect. When a person knows self, this person will have much less verbal conflict, especially if this person has empathy when communicating the messages.

You have to know how to teach so that others listen to you and learn what you want to communicate.

As I said at the beginning, I am not a linguistic expert or anything like that. I have been learning little things, and I am going to share them. And speaking of sharing, it is imperative that when you explain something, you also know how to communicate it. You have to see the level of understanding that the person has on the subject. Regularly, avoiding slang helps a lot. But if you want a person to learn something, you have to express it well. Whether it’s a skill, or that someone else is toxic, etc., it doesn’t matter.

Sometimes when you try to teach, you can lose patience and get angry. That is not good; you must put yourself in the shoes of the person who is trying to learn. We have all found it challenging to learn or accept something in this life, right? So, first, knowing the person properly, you have to understand how to communicate or explain whatever you are teaching. Because each person learns differently, and you want the person to be receptive and to learn well what you are trying to teach.

You can further improve this.

Instead of going the typical way, “No, that’s wrong,” you have to have a positive approach. For example, a person says to me, “well, I feel that I have no intuition because my solar plexus is blocked”: I could reply to him, “Well, that will be your third eye, which is that of intuition.” Or even, someone rude might say, “you are mixing chakras; you have no (swear) idea.” But, I usually reply with something like: “I think (humility is good) that you are referring to the third eye because it is where intuition comes from. The solar plexus is your personal power and self-esteem. You may think that this chakra is blocked because your own self -esteem does not allow you to follow the advice from your intuition. If you work the solar plexus chakra, and while you are at it, the third eye, you can improve your intuition. ”

You already know that I am very straightforward, you know it from the readings that I can do for you, just like when I give massages in the forecast. But for example, if I have to say something important, or bad news, I do it gently. I do not adorn the readings because that is harmful (here you can read what a good read is like). But I do at least warn first, and I start giving solutions if I have to “drop a bomb.” When they are authentic, not all readings are positive. Just like life itself.

The same message interpreted in many ways.

When you are teaching or helping someone, you have to value that. You have to feel good because that person has come to you, or you have the opportunity to help them. It does not mean that you are better or worse than that person. We are all souls having a human experience. So we are the same. You are going to know more about something than someone else. That person will also know more about something than you. Therefore, you should not let the ego lead you just “because you know more.”

The best teacher is one who stands at the feet of his student, getting in that person’s skin. For more than ten years I have been explaining (at least once a week) something about the chakras, or the astral body. However, that does not mean that the person who comes tomorrow receives poor treatment “because it is elementary.” For this person asking, most likely, its the first time, and they are trying to learn.

What we already know.

We already know this. I am not saying anything new. However, all of us human beings sometimes forget this. When you go to communicate something, think twice. A fundamental lesson that absolutely anyone can forget sometimes. Get to know the person, say things sensibly, and gently. Remember that we are all the same, and nobody is better, no matter the soul, the car, the appearance, or the opportunities of that person.

As you can see, it is simple, and with a little effort, you can empower your connections a lot. People will appreciate you more, and you will understand them too. It’s that simple!

You just have to know how to say things right (and how).

And well, communicate things in the best possible way. It is what brings the best results, but since each person is different, it is not a guarantee that the result will always be optimal. As you get to know that person, you will know what things they can misinterpret and avoid. Even that person may have a problem, and act (usually aggressively) towards you. However, in most cases, when the person’s peak of rage goes down, the person will apologize (or should.)

Anyway, I hope it has helped you a little. Next week it is forecast time, which will be the first Wednesday of the month. Also, it will be right on the first! Let’s see how about this month, but hey, I’ll tell you next week. I am pretty sure you are going to enjoy the read! See you next Wednesday!

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Love & Light,

Lots of blessings and abundance your way! (Home)

Rev. Fernando Albert