Empowering your relationships is essential for you to get the most out of your life.
Hi there! How it’s the week going? This is a long month and it has five Wednesdays. The forecast will be ready tomorrow on YouTube. Last week we were talking about soulmates, and although it does not always result in love if it is true that many times, it is true. For this reason, I am going to talk today about the importance of empowering relationships. Even the strongest relationship can break if communication fails. In fact, communication is the main foundation in a relationship, followed by sex and love.
You have to understand that even with good communication, you will not always be 100% in agreement. In fact, there will be some time that one of the two has to agree with the other person. However, with a good communication base, the subject will be fixed in a short time. If things are not talked about, they are repressed and that in the future can end up doing a lot of damage, or irreparable damage. It is even possible that I open old wounds in a relationship where there may have been lies or lack of communication at the beginning of it.
Why does communication fail us when it comes to empowering relationships?
Communication is essential to empower relationships, does not matter if these revolve around friendship, work, family or of course, love. However, the main problem between couples is the lack of communication. It is important to understand that no matter how close a couple is, it is made up of two different people. That, sometimes, can cause a shock, and it is during that shock that it is important to rely on communication. Either at that time, or in the near future, but find the solution to the problem. This is essential when it comes to empowering relationships.
Fear of misunderstandings.
Fear, as always, is the biggest problem, and possibly the root. Unfortunately, many couples start their relationship with a serious lack of communication. In many cases, this may be due to differences in sex needs, fears of previous relationships or even aspects of their personality that are kept hidden. This mainly happens because of fear of losing the couple. Fear of reprisals. However, unfortunately, this problem continues to grow until it “explodes”. That is never good. It is important to talk about it and repair it as soon as possible. It is essential when it comes to empowering loving relationships.
There is a very unhealthy fear on a general level about this issue. Your partner is supposed to be the person you can trust the most. However, in many cases, this is not the case and help is sought with friends and third parties, instead of the partner. If this is your case, it is important that you start promoting communication, you will see that it is worthwhile. Especially at the beginning it can be a little hard, but it will pay off.
Excessive use of electronics.
Little by little, screens have been part of our life and civilization. A faculty that the human being has is to want more, to grow and to explore. Thanks to this, we have already visited the space, made great discoveries and progressed technologically. However, there are also addictions, excesses and uncontrollable needs thanks to this ability. Nowadays, there is a hyperconnectivity that becomes really harmful to many people. The Internet offers infinity to insatiable beings.
This is very real in many couples. How many times have you seen couples having dinner that each one is on your mobile? It is a time where the couple has to strengthen their mutual connection, however, sometimes both persons in the couple choose to invest that time connect with thirds virtually.
Is this your situation?
How many couples-times take away the TV, the computer, video games, the mobile or the tablet? Do you spend enough time with your partner, “just talking” without doing anything else? I invite you to reflect on these questions. You may find that revaluing your daily activities can improve your relationship. And if it is something that you have already overcome, it never hurts to revalue from time to time. To empower relationships, you have to invest time in it.
When a couple’s connection is optimal, that couple will be able to spend hours doing nothing more than making each other’s company and chatting. In fact, it is a thing that although it costs at the beginning if there is no custom, it compensates more in the long run. You will find yourself in many situations of simply being on the couch with your partner, just chatting. Without music, without television and especially, without phones.
The best of all this is that each time you will know more about your partner and the connection will become much stronger. Therefore, be sure to look for these moments if your relationship does not have them. It is essential for the couple to work and not end up breaking.
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Lots of blessings and abundance your way!
