Understand Oppositions: They are a mechanism of growth and expansion.
I want to share why it is so important to understand oppositions because even though it hurts, there is often a meaning behind it. Let’s face it, we live in a world full of challenges, starting at birth. However, it was us who chose to come here. And in fact, it has been our own choice to face certain things like our parents (I recommend this article). And really, I’m sure you are able to look back and see challenges overcome. Things that you can be proud of!
In fact, there is a subject that seems essential to me to understand the opposition, and it is something as simple as understanding oneself. This will make you much stronger, but this is not the goal of this entry. I want to talk a little about why it seems that sometimes “the universe is a bit unfair” or “faces” something in your lives. Everything happens for a reason that perhaps we do not understand right now, but we will be able to understand. Many times in difficult times we do not remember those moments that “everything goes great”, and it is important to have those feelings in your heart to better understand the opposition. Therefore, when sometimes it seems that everything is a problem at work. Or perhaps love does not go well at all.
Maybe you do not feel good about yourself or you do not feel pride in your actions and successes.
There are always some steps to follow to understand oppositions and overcome it successfully.
First, you have to realize that if you face them, you can understand the opposition much better, change what is necessary and overcome it. Like everything in this life, there are always some steps to follow as well as different strategies that can overcome the problem. In most cases, if you have a problem or opposition, it is very possible that you are already able to overcome it. Perhaps it is difficult, or even frustrating, to read it like that, but it is true that you can overcome all the challenges you get. We will never receive a challenge that we can not overcome (this is not the same as failing a challenge you have had.) This will help you understand the opposition. To realize that whatever it is, sooner or later, that opposition will have brought a positive development in your life.
So we are going to touch some very simple points to face the oppositions in a more effective way.
Understand the origin of this difficulty and how it is affecting you.
You have to start by understanding the problem. Sometimes, we simply see that we have a problem, that something is very difficult or that we always have very bad luck. But it is possible, and I say almost at the beginning, that this problem is a “blessing” because it is bringing positive changes that you can not imagine in life. But come on, it’s not always the case. First, we have to ask ourselves:
Exactly, what is the problem?
It seems stupid, however; do it, but sometimes we are so blinded by the fact that we have to understand opposition that we do not even “look at it”. So first we have to know what the problem is:
- What is bothering me about work?
- How is it possible that I am always so tired?
- Why I never have “lucky moments”?
- What is frustrating me about this situation?
It is as simple as that. We may already know that the problem and still struggle, “you have to fix the car and there is no money.” Well, then time to head to the second step.
Through introspection, look for a personal/spiritual understanding and look for solutions.
When we know exactly what is happening, we begin to understand the opposition in the right way. Therefore, we can begin to solve it.
With introspection. How did you solve a math problem at school? Spending time and firing up that brain. Didn’t you? Well, the only difference is that you’re not in school, nor is it a math problem. It is a challenge of life. One more step on the road of life, another bump in the road … There are problems and problems, of course. Therefore, it is possible that some problems require more time or more tools. Even thanks to the fact of understanding the opposition, you have realized that the solution to that problem lies in another person, or in their help.
Many times, the problem can be something personal. When it is like that, you know, it’s time to face oneself. Maybe this article can give you a cable. It will help you to see the problem in a more positive, or even alternative way, bringing good energy and vibration to the situation. Introspection will help you to understand what changes you need to solve that problem with yourself. You can identify the root of the problem. Once you have done it, it is when you have to make changes. However, those changes will solve your problem. For example, go to the dentist before it hurts even more. Or for example, you may realize that you talk too much and that’s why it’s hard for you to make friends. You already know that you have to change it.
Sometimes that problem is not in our hands and understanding the opposition will give you that knowledge …
And with all the oppositions is the same; you have to understand them. If you know that your problem is not getting that promotion at work, you have to think about it. You may realize that if you take less unnecessary breaks in your work hours, you will make a better impression. Current equal in love, in friendship, in economic problems and even spiritual ones. (If you are able to talk to your guides, do it in this situation, and demand with love that they give you a solution if possible.)
Although there is something true, it is not always limited to us or needs a solution at this time. And right now we’re going to talk about it.
And when you do not have the tools or possibilities to solve it.
Maybe you’re thinking:
I’m breaking my back by working, and I know perfectly that Fulanito is the boss’ pet and I’ll never be able to grow.
Yes, it is very possible that your problem is an injustice and that is why it is necessary to understand the opposition. If the problem is out of your hands, or at least, the apparent solution is worthless (like working more in this case), I recommend that you continue exploring the reasons for the problem.
Let’s say yes, that Fulanito is the boss’s pet, even though he is a lazy bum, it takes all the prizes and promotions from the boss. Your problem is that you do not have enough money and your solution is to improve your work. You know perfectly well that such a case where you find growth in that job will not happen because of Fulanito and the boss. Well, why do not you look for another job? Possibly, you feel you only need to look for a new job when you’re missing one (it’s very common). But if your job does not cover your expectations and needs, it’s time to look for another job. Best of all, what is much easier to find a job when you already have one!
There are many reasons.
Or to give another example, the love of your life is not divorced from his or her partner, who is an abusive person who makes that person you love very unhappy. It is the decision (and perhaps a spiritual need, read about karma) of that person to remain married to the abusive partner. Maybe you should open your heart and stop focusing on this person. It is possible that the solution to this problem is to go out and enjoy. Maybe you have a crush on someone you meet there, starting a relationship that will last until death separates you.
Yeah, but sometimes not even that works.
Some of the problems may be final. Maybe divorcing yourself from the person you love is a problem, but these persons need to divorce from you, therefore there is no solution. Even so, you do not have to spend the rest of your life in dust due to an unsolved problem. There is no problem in fact (it is “dead”), now there is the possibility that new doors open …
Even sometimes understanding that defeat or blockage can open new doors that you do not know.
Sometimes we find ourselves in situations where apparently the problem is not going to be solved. You have been working for 20 years in a company that you love and it declares bankruptcy. Right now, you do not have a job and you feel “it’s the end”, professionally speaking. Finally, you find another job that yes, maybe the finances are even better, but you’re not happy. You want your old job back. However, in the next 2 years, a colleague of that new job that you do not like so much informs you of a new possible opportunity.
You take a look and you take it. You realize that you have a much better job than you had initially (yes, I refer to that 20-year-old job), and although that job will be in your heart for life, the initial problem has brought progress to your life (overall). It has simply required to walk a path of events. Some steps hurt, some are awesome. We live in a society based on linear time, right? the Universe fits. And I do not need to give examples of love, for example, right?
Everything happens for a reason
sometimes understanding opposition is necessary to know that these oppositions have a reason, although you may not understand that reason until the future. In fact, letting it flow helps a lot more, and also meditation, the Journey that Relieves Stress, and you can find it here. So now, you know why the things that get uphill sometimes, and the power to understand opposition.
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Much Love & Light.
Lots of blessings and abundance your way!